I've been in a relationship for six months. The first three were good but then getting into the last three months have been difficult in the sense I'm finding out certain things about him.
Before getting with him, I knew he dranked because he told me he was a weekend drinker. After being with him for some time, I'm noticing that he's not. He's more of an everyday drinker.
Lately he's been getting drunk frequently and he also got fired from his job due to two no calls no shows all because he gets hung over. Another thing, is that I catch him sitting in the bathroom on his phone and as soon as I enter, he quickly hides his phone from me and acts like he was using the bathroom. When I point out how can he be using the toilet with the seat down, he gets a little defensive.
But before all this he proposed to me and I said yes, but now I'm having cold feet. To make it worse, his own family was telling me he had a history with drinking and losing jobs because of this.
I so desperately just want to settle down, be loved and start a family. Dating is just too hard since all men just want sex and nothing more.
Should I call it quits and just stay single forever or do I shove these nagging red flags down?
Ps: I received a lot of advice so before you mention it, yes I met him at church and no, I'm not a party girl, or a cub or bar girl. I'm simply a homebody.